My nearly-mother-in-law at the pupuseria |
He made the pupusa girl smile. Her
mother laughed, and I probably blushed. Their reactions were the most
common, smiles and laughter, and I saw them again and again on face
after face as he and I walked around San Salvador. Something in his
easy manner put everyone at ease, whether he was talking about
politics or making ribald insinuations with an impish grin.
Not your average priest.
As I mentioned in my Election Day dispatch on the Ethical Traveler site, here, my
current Code says that I have to accept strange travel suggestions,
and he was full of them, since he quickly grew bored with all the
standing-around that our group was doing.
He handed me a hard green fruit with
seeds like chips of concrete, nestled in a savory pulp that seemed
somehow cactus-like. “These are from Israel, the Sinai” he told
me. At the next stand he had the lady laughing even as she cracked
the egg into the mostly-washed blender, and the doormen at the hotel
greeted him like a favorite uncle.
I wish I had a picture of the señora, but I didn't have his way of putting her at east |
Back home in Chicago, he presides over
a church dedicated to Nuestra Señora
de Guadalupe, that is, the Virgin Mary. On one wander we passed
another such church. The crowd was thick, people clustered around the
altar, lighting candles and slipping coins into the donation box. I
expected him to be pleased at the health of a sister congregation.
But as we walked past the church, he
gestured down to an old woman, indigenous ancestry, who was begging
for coins with an outstretched styrofoam cup, empty in her bone-thin
hand. He gave her his change, then looked at me, a look of laughing
incredulity on his face.
“They pray over there, but this, her,
she is nuestra señora
de Guadalupe, right here. They
pray to a statue, but she's right here.”
Not your average priest. But a damn
good one.